Cpl Tommy L. Parker, Jr., 21
Heber Springs, AR

Parker was assigned to 2nd Battalion, 4th Marine Regiment, 1st Marine Division, I Marine Expeditionary Force, Camp Pendleton, Calif.; he was killed June 21, 2004 in an ambush in Ramadi, Iraq, 60 miles west of Baghdad.

Cpl. Tommy L. Parker Jr., 21, of Heber Springs, was killed in an ambush in Ramadi, Iraq, 60 miles west of Baghdad. He served with a sniper platoon of the 1st Marine Division, based out of Camp Pendleton, Calif.

“T.J. was just the sort of person who would help anybody, anyone,” his father, Tommy Parker, said. “I think that T.J. just really wanted to do something for his country.”

Parker’s parents signed a release to allow him to join the Marine Reserves at 17 years old. He went on active duty after graduating from high school, his father said.

Parker and three other Marines were killed by insurgents and videotaped lying dead in what appeared to be a walled compound in Ramadi.

The videotape was delivered to Associated Press Television News on Monday, showing Parker and the others in the heart of the insurgent Sunni stronghold, without mandatory flak jackets and with their belongings looted or strewn about.

The bodies were found when the soldiers failed to report on schedule and a U.S. quick reaction force went looking for them.

Parker was the 13th Arkansan to die in combat in Iraq since the March 2003 start of the war.

A casualty officer visited Parker’s parents, Tommy and Renatta Parker, on Monday. Two of the family’s pastors were with T.J. Parker’s wife, Carla, and their 2-year-old daughter, Lara, when they were informed later in the day.

T.J. and Carla Parker started dating at the beginning of high school, Tommy Parker said.

Parker was a 2001 graduate of Triple S Christian Academy, a school on a ranch in nearby Rose Bud, Ark., that is connected to the Bishops’ Gospel Light Baptist Church. After joining the Marines, Parker served in Japan and Indonesia for about a year. He was deployed to Iraq in February, Tommy Parker said.

T.J. Parker probably decided to become a sniper because he loved hunting, his father said. He had accompanied his father on deer- and rabbit-hunting trips since he was 3 years old, Tommy Parker said.

He spoke with his family often while overseas, and his wife was the last to speak to him on Sunday, his father said.

“He talked like everything was going OK, it was just another day in Iraq,” Tommy Parker said.

The Rev. John Bishop, the family’s pastor, is comforting the family this week.

“I talked with the family and their greatest comfort is knowing T.J. was ready to meet the Lord,” said the Rev. John Bishop, the family’s pastor. “Their correspondence was very positive before his death.

“T.J. to us has been and still is our hero, along with every man and woman wearing that uniform today,” he said. “We’re proud of each and every one of them. Our hearts and prayers go out to everyone and everyone’s family.”

 

 

Return to Roll of Honor